Thanks guys.
ag4ever-yeah, having your trailer wheels pass you would certainly get your attention!!
We are a bit short of $$$-Katrina-illness etc, so if possible this will be DIY. I will give Toyota a call-see how expensive it is.If it is under $100-I'll go that route, if not, then DIY it is.I have a buddy with a press, so that won't be a problem.I will use a genuine Toyota part-no 89 cent Autozone part. I learned that lesson long ago! There are LOTS of very low quality fasteners out there!!
The weather is suppose to improve tomorrow(rain, wind crummy lately).I'll jack it up and check it tomorrow.
I torque wrench checked the other four-they were 81- 97 lb-ft.It shouldn't have failed at 100 or 120 lbs-no way!!
Thanks,
Charlie