You can get all of your answers from the parts counter at your local Honda dealership. They'll be able to look up those parts to see if they're interchangeable between the standard V6 and hybrid models.

Oil for the A/C compressor should be available from AutoZone, Checker's, Napa, etc.

You might be able to get lucky and find a hybrid Accord in a junkyard with rear damage. Go to a big junkyard that's connected by computer and if they don't have it, they'll be able to do a search of other junkyards that are on their network.

As for the wiring diagram, I think I might have it in the service manual. I'll try to look it up later this weekend and let you know what I find.

Good luck! And keep us posted (with pics, please!) on the repair work!

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