So I went ahead and got the ice>Link. I went to Al and Ed's in Pasadena and they ordered up the parts from Dension. I got the harness from Honda and got the whole thing installed and it works fine. The XM isn't completely gone, its a little low and the highs don't seem to be coming out. But my 3 free months are almost up and I'm not keeping it. Sirius is where I'm going... channel 100

The controls work on the steering wheel. Pics are on the way.