I went with Tigerhonaker's dealer. He was just as nice and helpful as the guy at Bernardi, and actually...$6 less . I gave him all my info by phone. All he wanted was me to email him a photo of my dash showing my mileage.

I also gave him some heat and told him Tiger's boat needs to row faster!

I did call the dealer who sold me my car to see if they would match the internet quotes I got and there was no way, he told me. Apparently at some dealers like theirs, warranty profit is kept distinct from the car sale profit and they have certain thresholds they can't go under. So he could not sell me a Honda Care EW for less than $300-over-cost no matter how much I paid for my car. They appreciated that I gave them first chance to take my money but had to say they recommended I go with the other guy instead.