I've an AWD FEH and a TCH. One thing to keep in mind is ground clearance. The FEH has more, and less overhang on the front. I'm careful not to go through dips and sloped driveways too fast with the TCH. With the FEH I never give it a thought.

Both have traction control, so wheel slip should not be a big concern. But in really bad weather, it is nice to know you have 4 wheels to keep you moving with the FEH. The TCH has VDIM (Vehicle Dynamics Integrated Management system) that helps avoid loss of control.

If you haul a lot of gear with you, the FEH has lots more storage room with the rear seats down than the TCH. The TCH seats fold down, but the battery is in the trunk and blocks most of the pass through area. The FEH battery is below the floor of the rear cargo area, so you have a huge area to pack gear with the rear seats down. The FEH also has a roof rack you can use to carry your skis.

Both are very comfortable and fun to drive