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Originally Posted by Delta Flyer
I want to again thank fernando_g for starting this thread.
While trying to be tactful, it still seems like there is this desire to be offended no matter how I qualify my posts. I've said there are rude motorcycle and compact car drivers - not all SUV/truck drivers are just commuters or jerks. Expecting me to completely agree with you seems to be what you want out of me - is that realistic?
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I don't expect you completely agree with me. What a boring world that would be. I simply challenging your stereotypes of excess vs need and tying them directly to a person ego. This is not about truck drivers. That was simple the starting point of this conversation. I will be the first to admit that our responses to one another may have offended some people. I personally have not been offended. I have simple seen this as a strong difference of opinions.
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Originally Posted by Delta Flyer
I was a bit overboard on the troll calling, but we actually had a bona fide troller last week with an established history of harassing hybrid sites in recent years. This is not the area you expected me to say I may have been judgemental, but I believe on that count I was in error.
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Every board I have ever been to all new members are treated suspiciously. Trust me I am not here simple to make your life hell. I am here to because I find there is a lot of good information and I want to keep up to speed on other persons experiences with the Hybrid technology. By keeping myself informed and I will be a better position to keep my purchase properly for a long time.
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Originally Posted by Delta Flyer
Many of the members here are concerned with the supply of energy and environment, and yes it shapes attitudes.
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And I share many of those same concerns.
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Originally Posted by Delta Flyer
To reinterate my first post on this thread, Dallas has more than the usual driving professionals with the mind set - I work hard so....
- I am allowed to be pushy<
- quick-tempered<
- yes, judgemental<
- have a my-way-or-the-highway attitude<
- carry that attitude on the freeway and bounce people around in supersized vehicles<
This is an experience - not something imagined with a rush to judgement.
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Personally I have found Dallas to be a wonderful place to live. Far from the rude picture you paint. From my own experience I found Denver and Boise to be far more rude and pushy. Not just on the road, but even just how people conducted themselves in the grocery stores.
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Originally Posted by Delta Flyer
What I'm perplexed is you don't drive an Escalade and your not one of the power truck drivers that blast in the right median or would pass me in a single exit lane, yet you fight their fight. It's easy enough to take offence at things actually directed at you - reacting to stuff directed at others is not likely to bring happiness.
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I am also not a terrorist or a "prisoner of war", but I feel the what is happening at Quantonimo Bay is an abuse of justice, and have had several debates with persons regarding this issue as well.
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Originally Posted by Delta Flyer
I'm not really optimistic, but over time hope you will realize you were not the target of those remarks I made....
I've little more to add.
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I never felt you were targeting me. I am simply trying to get you to realize that it is very easy to sit in judgement of someone when you know nothing about them.
It is one this to say,
"I have this friend Joe who is so full of himself. He continually brags about all his purchases, and acts like a total donkey. He thinks he is Joe King of the Hill when he get's in his truck and pulls away from his 8,00 square foot home. What an egomaniac"
It is another to drive by a neighborhood, or see a person on the road and then make some generalistic comment regarding what you may think you know about them. When you make statements such as "I'm simply not into getting things way bigger than my needs to impress others or stroke my ego" The implication is that if someone buys a home larger than what they need it is because of some ego trip. Where are we to draw this line? What is to much or to big.
Here is a good example. The HiHy and Lexus R400h are near identical except for certain ammenities. Is the person who buys the Lexus instead of HiHy doing it because they are on an ego trip. Clearly the HiHy would have fit the same need.
I am simply trying to impress upon you that I feel you are to quick to characterize someone based on a few stereotypes you have formed. The issue with me is that the statments I have read a broad generalizations. Y Yes you have quantified that you aren't against those who own it for need only those who own if for unacceptable reasons? Explain to me though how you determine what is an acceptable or unacceptable reason. For instance my Grandfather was from a small southern town. He worked hard for what he had. Yet he owned a truck for no other reason than he liked driving trucks. He took a lot of pride in his truck. He even would show it off to his other friends. Yet this man man was one of the most generous persons I have ever met. He had no ego that I am aware of, but he also drove like fool. He was oblivious to that fact. He could just as easily fhave made it into your picture portolio as the person you posted a picture of. What differentiates him from the person's picture you posted?
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Originally Posted by ender21
As usual some people try to look at a situation in black and white terms when 99% of all situations are far from it.
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I believe you are making my arguement for me.
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So merely saying "I can spend it however I want," while true, ultimately impacts everyone.
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No one lives in a bubble. And everyone is impacted by those around them. I agree 100%. I do however, think we as a society have become obsessed with what others do around us. It seems like a majority of the conversations I hear anymore are about how so is so is infringing on my rights or xyz is offensive. If people would spend as much time working on themselves and less time worrying about what Joe Schom does or doesn't do I think there might just be a lot less aggrevation in the world. I am sure the bone head who cut me off today in his Mustang thought I was driving just as poorly as I thought he was. Ever notice it is always the other person who was rude?
And just so you guys know. I expect you disagreement. That's what makes the world go round. I also don't see what wrong with calling each other out over those differences. Offending me is not something that happens easily. I can only think of one time I have ever been offended on the Internet and it went was far above and beyond some comment regardging me being a troll or potshot artist. Don't confuse my emotion and hard core stances with being offended.