Although the Prius engine will eventually get to the same "normal" temperatures eventually, it definately runs more often at less than normal temperatures than a conventional car. The engine will warm-up a little when first turned on, but it definitely shuts off WAY before normal temperature if it is not needed. On a typical morning, the ICE will start and run for 10 or 15 seconds, and then I can drive all the way out of my community (3-5 minutes) before it starts again.
As far as "Hybrid Oil" - who knows? Could be marketing, could be some differences in additives. I guess it depends on whether or not you think Shell or Exxon gas is better for your car than what you get from generic stations.
