You need to press the SEL button on your dash. The same button you use to rotate through the Trip A, Trip B, Outside Temp, etc. Oil life is in there. It will also come up automatically once it reaches 20% or lower.
As for the oil, use what Honda uses. Dealers are required in the States to list what oil they use on the vehicle. It would be a really bad move on a dealer to use inferior oil if you go there every time for an oil change. I wouldn't trust a non-Honda dealership to change the oil because the Hybrid has a cover shield over under the engine and needs to be removed if they want to get to the oil bolt and filter.
Your oil change should cost the equivelent to xx oil changes in months / miles. Basically you are told in older cars to change every 3000 miles or 3 months, a standard oil change for that older cars is around $30.00. 30.00 x (X) miles/months = your cost.
If it cost more than that then you need to shop around.
